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Melissa Rocha (@melisshious) is a stand-up comedian based in NYC.

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This week, Melissa and I talked Twitter friends, going viral, and making tamales for comedy shows.

railed & ghosted 2020

We do have an election year coming up [smiling, sweating emoji].

That combination is ripe for ghosting.

Im learning that it makes people uncomfortable seeing women age alone.

Okay, maybe thats just my parents.

I am a manic pixie dream WOMAN.

Do you think Twitter has been helpful to your comedy in any way?

Why or why not?I think so.

I am terrible at sitting down to write jokes or going to open mics.

Its fun to write the dumb thing I thought of and immediately put it out there.

Its like instant gratification or instant disappointment.

It is bad for me though, because then I keep checking my phone.

Notifications keep me young, LOL.

Theres also this really sweet culture of Twitter friends, people I have met through social media.

I know so much about their internet lives and they know about mine.

Some Ill meet IRL, and others … never.

How do you find time for it all?

Whats the key to that balance?…

and I go to the beach, and I have to get my nails done.

And I have to go to karaoke.

Stand-up agrees with my party animalprofessional friend lifestyle.

A quiet night in is a novel concept to me.

My time is valuable and I dont really date people that frees me up.

I think I date vicariously through my wonderful friends.

If they get married, its like I got married, and that is good enough for me!

Getting older is wild.

I spend so much time telling people I love them.

Yes, Im a Pisces.

lmao jk

Omg, I make myself laugh too much.

My Oberon, what visions have I seen!

Methought I was enamored of an ass.

You are very proudly Latina.

What does having that identity in averywhite industry mean to you?

When the phrase code switching came about, I was like THATS WHAT IVE BEEN DOING MY WHOLE LIFE.

Since Im aware of that more; I feel better about being myself onstage and off.

My family is really funny, they inspire me a lot, and being Mexican-American is part of that.

And yes, my dad is the funniest person I know.

We invite performers to tell a story inspired by any combination of the title.

I am the worst because I selfishly book specific people thatIwant to see what they do.

Its a great hang!

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